What does it even mean – does it serve me?

Tapas For Your Soul

Sometimes we assume we are all talking about the same thing, when we really aren’t.

Look anything up in Urban Dictionary and you’ll see what I mean.

I use the question “does it serve me?” as a criteria for evaluating so many things: my thoughts, my beliefs, my decisions, my values – and I highly recommend it.

Sometimes I get pushback from my clients, because they think I mean it in a selfish way, and they just aren’t comfortable being selfish (which is a topic for another day!) They think that I am saying to be self-serving, which means having concern for one’s own welfare and interests before those of others. That’s not at all what I mean!

“Does it serve me?” = does this thought or belief or whatever thing help me to be my best self? To become more of who I want to be? To be…

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Author: dreamweaver333

I love to listen to the whispering of spirit.