Sometimes we assume we are all talking about the same thing, when we really aren’t.
Look anything up in Urban Dictionary and you’ll see what I mean.
I use the question “does it serve me?” as a criteria for evaluating so many things: my thoughts, my beliefs, my decisions, my values – and I highly recommend it.
Sometimes I get pushback from my clients, because they think I mean it in a selfish way, and they just aren’t comfortable being selfish (which is a topic for another day!) They think that I am saying to be self-serving, which means having concern for one’s own welfare and interests before those of others. That’s not at all what I mean!
“Does it serve me?” = does this thought or belief or whatever thing help me to be my best self? To become more of who I want to be? To be…
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